Hey everyone! These past two weeks we´ve had family nights at a members house with investigators. We always try to have a family night every Monday to introduce investigators to the members. I was in charge of the game. I remembered a really fun easy game that Krista showed us in the long lines at Disney World. It was an iPhone app, but I was able to manage with sticky notes. I wrote a different animal name on a bunch of different sticky notes then stuck one on everyone´s forehead. (You can see everyone’s animal except the one on your forehead.) We had to guess what animal we were by taking turns asking yes or no questions. Everyone loved it! It was a fun time.
Family nights are very important to help bring our families closer together. I still remember having family night as a kid. Even though I don´t remember what was taught or what we did, I remember having them. Even when I was in high school, I remember mom and dad gathering everyone together to have family night. Even though I was usually on my phone the whole time and only thinking about when it would be over, I remember having them. It´s so important to set traditions in the families early on because the kids remember. In the Book of Mormon, we always hear the phrase “tradition of their fathers”. It only took one generation for the Lamanites to turn completely against the Nephites; just because that´s what the parents taught their kids. I never really understood “traditions of their fathers” until my mission.
Literally, everything in this life depends on the traditions of your parents. Monkey see, monkey do… as I like of think. We always see and hear so much on the mission that directly relates to the “tradition of their fathers”. Kids grow up thinking that things are right and normal because they see their parents doing it or teaching it. The funniest thing we hear on a daily basis is: “I was born catholic and I´ll die catholic. My father was catholic, his father was catholic, and the father of my father was catholic” haha. This is a perfect example of what the Book of Mormon warns us about. Here is what happened to the people of Zarahemla because of the traditions of their fathers:
“Now it came to pass that there were many of the rising generation that could not understand the words of king Benjamin, being little children at the time he spake unto his people; and they did not believe the tradition of their fathers.
They did not believe what had been said concerning the resurrection of the dead, neither did they believe concerning the coming of Christ.
And now because of their unbelief they could not understand the word of God; and their hearts were hardened.
And they would not be baptized; neither would they join the church. And they were a separate people as to their faith, and remained so ever after, even in their carnal and sinful state; for they would not call upon the Lord their God.” (Mosiah 26:1-4)
Love,
Elder Olsen